Top Four Tips to Help you Write a Strong Personal Statements

Writing your college essay can feel overwhelming — but it doesn’t have to be. Over the years, I’ve helped hundreds of students find their voice, reflect on their experiences, and craft personal statements that truly represent who they are.

Whether you’re just starting out or stuck in the middle of a draft, here are four practical suggestions to help you move forward with confidence:

1. Just Start

The hardest part is often getting started. Many students overthink their essay before writing a single word. To break through that block, I give my students a simple first assignment: write about something that happened today. No pressure. No fancy vocabulary. Just write the way you talk.

This quick exercise helps students realize they can write — and that it doesn’t have to be perfect right away. Once you’ve chosen a potential essay topic, set a timer for ten minutes and start writing. If it doesn’t flow, you’ve only lost ten minutes. If it does? You’re on your way.

2. Use Your Natural Voice

Admissions officers want to hear from you. Not your English teacher. Not your parents. Not ChatGPT. Your essay should sound like something you’d say out loud — thoughtful, reflective, and real.

Be careful not to over-edit or collect feedback from too many people. Too many voices can dilute your own. Stick to one or two trusted readers — maybe your counselor or an English teacher who knows you well — and make sure the final version still sounds like you.

3. Show Them What They Can’t Already See

Think of your essay as the one part of your application where you can tell the admissions team something they won’t find anywhere else. They already have your grades, test scores, and activity list. What they don’t have is a clear sense of your personality — how you think, what matters to you, and how you move through the world.

What would your friends or family say makes you you? Are you the one who plans every group hangout? The person who checks in on others when they’re having a tough day? The sibling who takes charge when things go sideways? Find those personal traits and weave them into your story.

If you’re not sure where to start, ask your parents or someone who knows you well. You might be surprised by the insights they offer.

4. Embrace the Editing Process

Writing is rewriting. Your first draft is just the beginning — a chance to get your thoughts out. With each round of editing, your essay becomes more focused and powerful.

Once you’ve got a solid draft, step away for a day or two, then come back with fresh eyes. Ask yourself: Does this sound like me? Does it reflect who I am? If someone else read it, would they know I wrote it?

And of course, polish your grammar, punctuation, and structure. When you’re ready for feedback, choose someone whose opinion you trust. They’ll help ensure your essay is not only well-written but also aligned with your goals.

One Last Thought

Your personal statement is more than an assignment — it’s an opportunity. Don’t stress about making it perfect on the first try. Just start writing, trust your voice, and be honest about who you are.

And if you’re feeling stuck? I’d love to help. Reach out anytime — I’m here to guide you through it.